Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Should I wait for her or move on?

Dude this must be a parallel universe you and i are in because u just described an attempted relationship of mine that basically failed a couple a weeks ago. So basically my girl had never been in a relationship either she is 18 im 20 and she is really really really shy but she is a sweetheart and i know she liked me, I started talking to her and eventually i told her how i felt she said she was excited but wanted to take things slow. So i said fine and my one and only request was that she should put some effort into knowing me as well but guess what I made all the calls, started all the conversations, told her everything about me and afterall that I still hardly know anything about her because she doesnt even put in the effort. And like you i've tried many different strategies with her 1. talking to her less, 2. talking to her more, 3. teasing her 4. basically anything a guy can do to make a girl feel comfortable and she just couldnt open so I stopped trying and she never even tried to to contact me so now i just ignore her I know she's hurting because i read her posts on facebook but she has no one to blame but herself. Trust me girls like these only get into relationships with their best best best guy friends and poor you and me had to learn the hard way, Anyways dude im kinda venting too but LEAVE HER ALONE its actually her own fault not yours. She needs to build up her self-confidence and noone can do that for her. STOP WASTING YOUR TIME..............just stay friends who knows you might just stand a better chance that way if she thinks your harmless.

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